There is no reason for you to feel bad about long posts. Every writer
is different, and some of us (myself included!) just like to use the
medium more than others. You should always post what you need to in
order to get across your message and feel right about it. I agree with
Sue that this list is very helpful and that the people on it are
gracious and kind, so you go right ahead and share what you're
experiencing. You won't find rudeness here; everyone will understand.
You couldn't have found a better place for warmth and compassion. I
wish I'd known about it when I was trying to help Wolfie battle FeLV.
Still, it's here now, and that's a good thing, no?
Gabby and los gatos fregados