Try putting water on your finger and giving it to her that way. She may just
be REAL uncomfortable for a day or two after the surgery. (wouldn't we all
be?) She'll be back to normal in a day or so and eating and drinking on her
own again soon enough. She's most likely hurting, but not enough for you to
really worry about. Yet. Keep an eye on the incision and if it does get red
or starts oozing, call a vet asap! It might get infected then. She may also
be still feeling the effects of the anasthesia, so do what makes her happy
and don't worry too much. She's doing fine from what I can tell.
Laura and the Brat Pack (also a worrisome Meowmy.)